Growing up as the daughter of a talented fashion designer, people often assume I’d follow in her footsteps. But I knew from a young age that fashion design wasn’t my calling. I love very classy dresses, but making them seemed like rocket science to me.
Does this mean I’m dumb? Definitely not!
This revelation of my disinterest in fashion design always leave others puzzled especially considering the potential for fashion design. But I crave excellence and don’t want to invest my energy on a profession I cannot thrive in.
The Truth About Career Choices
Being a fashion designer’s child doesn’t guarantee success in the field for me, just as being an engineer’s child doesn’t predetermine the child’s success as an engineer.
I commend parents who genuinely wants the best for their children, and choose the career they feel is best for them. However, it isn’t the best when parents impose their wills on their children, not minding the child’s interest. Parents are stewards, accountable to God for their wards.
Your background, parents’ occupation, and personality may spark expectations, but it is essential to prioritize God’s design for your life. Choosing a career that misaligns with your purpose is an abuse of God’s design – an abuse of yourself.
As God’s creation, our career choices should align with what we are created or designed for. Others’ opinions are secondary, serving only to confirm God’s revelation to you.
Jesus said, “I am the vine, you are the branches. If a man remains in me and I in him, he will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing.” (John 15:5, NIV)
Just as a branch thrives only when connected to the stem, our lives flourish when rooted in God.
Take time to reflect on your gifts, talents and abilities.
Seek God’s guidance and direction.
Your future is worth it.
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