Dami

Growing up as the daughter of a talented fashion designer, people often assume I’d follow in her footsteps. But I knew from a young age that fashion design wasn’t my calling. I love very classy dresses, but making them seemed like rocket science to me. Does this mean I’m dumb? Definitely not! This revelation of my disinterest in fashion design always leave others puzzled especially considering the potential for fashion design. But I crave excellence and don’t want to invest my energy on a profession I cannot thrive in. The Truth About Career Choices Being a fashion designer’s child doesn’t guarantee success in the field for me, just as being an engineer’s child doesn’t predetermine the child’s success as an engineer. I commend parents who genuinely wants the best for their children, and choose the career they feel is best for them. However, it isn’t the best when parents impose their wills on their children, not minding the child’s interest. Parents are stewards, accountable to God for their wards. Your background, parents’ occupation, and personality may spark expectations, but it is essential to prioritize God’s design for your life. Choosing a career that misaligns with your purpose is an abuse of God’s design – an abuse of yourself. As God’s creation, our career choices should align with what we are created or designed for. Others’ opinions are secondary, serving only to confirm God’s revelation to you. Jesus said, “I am the vine, you are the branches. If a man remains in me and I in him, he will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing.” (John 15:5, NIV) Just as a branch thrives only when connected to the stem, our lives flourish when rooted in God. Take time to reflect on your gifts, talents and abilities. Seek God’s guidance and direction. Your future is worth it. Photo Credit: AI

No, I’m not, and neither are you. I doubt if anyone is. In high school, Physics was a thorn in my flesh. So, when I see people, especially ladies, excelling in physics, I’m impressed, but sometimes I feel inferior. Was it my fault? Not entirely. In our society, we often judge a child’s intelligence based on their performance in “tough” subjects. For centuries, the concept of intelligence has been narrowly defined as solely academic achievement. However, renowned American psychologist Dr. Howard Gardner’s “Theory of Multiple Intelligences” challenges this notion. He identifies nine types of intelligence, suggesting each person has multiple intelligences. Let’s explore them: 1. Linguistic Intelligence: They have highly developed oratory skills, effectively using words; they’re word and language smart. These are writers, storytellers, etc. 2. Logical-Mathematical Intelligence: They’re highly reasoning, calculating, and solving puzzles; they’re numbers and reasoning smart. Think Albert Einstein. 3. Bodily-Kinesthetic Intelligence: They communicate through body language, coordinating their minds with their bodies, e.g., sportsmen, dancers, actors. 4. Musical Intelligence: They’re music-smart, sensitive listeners. (Not all singers are musically intelligent.) 5. Spatial Intelligence: They’re picture smart, environmentally aware, drawing and designing effectively, e.g., artists, sculptors, interior decorators. 6. Interpersonal Intelligence: They enjoy interacting with people, are people smart, give and receive mentoring conveniently, and connect with others effectively, e.g., teachers. 7. Intrapersonal Intelligence: They’re naturally self-motivated, disciplined, and prefer independent study, e.g., spiritual leaders, coaches. 8. Naturalist Intelligence: They’re nature smart, having a natural love for nature, e.g., botanists, chefs. 9. Existential Intelligence: They tackle life’s tough, deep questions about human existence, e.g., spiritual leaders. According to the dictionary, “dumb” means lacking intelligence. Having reviewed these nine types of intelligence, we must know that no one is weak or dumb. Most people feel unfulfilled because they aren’t doing what they’re naturally good at. They’re trying to be someone they’re not designed or wired to be. The Bible reminds me, “… I am fearfully and wonderfully made; marvelous are Your works, and that my soul knows very well.” (Psalm 139:14, NKJV) Don’t feel intimidated by someone else’s strength and uniqueness. Instead, identify yours and develop it until it places you before people who matter. Of these nine types of intelligence, can you identify yours? Keep in mind: “For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.” (Ephesians 2:10, NIV) Reflect on your strengths and interests to discover your unique intelligence. Keep being excellent!